Here is an email message from Kaye Hayes Antis about her wonderful husband, truly loved by all who knew him:
On June 25, 2024, the Antis family laid our beloved Phillip Jay Antis, Sr. to rest at the beautiful, crystal clear Fish Lake near Myrtle Creek, Oregon, where he grew up. Twenty-five members of the Antis family gathered from Florida to California, Virginia to Idaho, as well as Mississippi and Louisiana to say goodbye. It was truly a celebration as we laughed, talked, remembered and shed a tear. Here is Phil's obituary:
Phillip Jay Antis, 76, of Pass Christian, MS
passed away on October 30, 2023, surrounded by his loving family. Born on March
8, 1947, in Myrtle Creek, Oregon, Phil was a devoted husband, father, and
grandfather. He was a man of his word, always ready to protect his family,
declaring, "I will take a bullet for you!" Those who loved him knew
that was not a boast, but the truth. He spent his life dedicated to his
wife and children and their well-being always took first priority.
Phil, known for his honorable and sweet nature, proudly served his country as a Marine in the US Marine Corps during the Vietnam War. He often exclaimed "hoorah" to his brothers in arms, embodying the Marine Corps’ spirit of camaraderie and dedication. He wore his favorite colors-red, white, and blue-every day. He was a true patriot, and to be blunt, a badass.
A distinguished graduate of Oregon State University, Phil excelled in his career as a structural engineer for over 51 years, culminating in the establishment of his own company, AVETS, Inc. After his passing, his colleagues expressed being in awe of his expertise and professionalism and his family called him "Mr. Math".
Phil's passion for building and remodeling manifested in his love for home projects, from crafting decks to bookcases and storage units. He found joy in creating and enhancing spaces for his loved ones. Phil loved poker and card games. His favorite hobby never changed - being with his family.
A man of faith, Phil was baptized at Bethel Methodist Church in Monroe, NC. His was committed to his beliefs, especially helping others, as he was always was hanging a picture for his daughter, mentoring young engineers, or filing for the city Code Office.
Phil’s sense of humor was infectious. He loved a good dad joke, and would even tell an off-color joke now and then. He loved Richard Pryor and the Mel Brooks classic, “Blazing Saddles.” His children would often roll their eyes at some of his well-tread classics, but he could still make his grandchildren-even the teenagers-crack a smile or even laugh out loud.
Phil loved to eat and carry on. His favorite restaurant was Commander’s Palace in New Orleans, especially on quarter martini lunch days. He had simple tastes, often craving coffee, bacon, bread, and cheese.
Phil's ashes will be laid to rest at Fish Lake in Oregon, a place that held special memories for him, where he enjoyed countless hours fishing for rainbow trout.
In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made to CarrytheLoad.com, a Veterans Charity dedicated to supporting and honoring heroes like Phil.
Phil is survived by his beloved wife of 55 years, Kaye Hayes Antis, his children Eleanor Kaye Antis; Phillip Jay Antis, Jr. and wife, Katherine Taylor Antis; and Katherine Antis Ferguson and husband, Eric J. Ferguson, as well as, his grandchildren to whom he was delighted by and devoted to, Phillip J. Antis III, Charles Taylor Antis, Vera Kaye Ferguson, and Evelyn Marie Ferguson. He is also survived by his brother, David A. Antis, Sr. and his wife Carol Antis and his nephews, David A. Antis, Jr, and Charles Antis. He is preceded in death by his parents, Hobart J. Antis and Vera Jenkins Antis, as well as three siblings.
Phil's legacy of integrity, dedication, hard work and love will forever be cherished by those who knew him. He will be deeply missed and fondly remembered by all who had the privilege of knowing him.
Phil Antis enlisted in the United States Marine Corps in July 1965, at the age of 18, began active service on August 2, 1965, was released from active duty on August 2, 1969, and receive an honorable discharge on July 1, 1971 after serving a six-year obligation. After boot camp in San Diego, California, and specialty training in Camp Pendleton, California, he served in Vietnam from March 1966 to April 1967. After Vietnam, he returned to Camp Lejeune, North Carolina, where he served on two six-month long Mediterranean Deployments, a Caribbean Cruise, and a month long trip to Vieques, Puerto Rico. He held the rank of Staff Sergeant (E-6) at the time of his discharge. He received the Vietnam Campaign Medal, the Vietnam Service Medal, the National Defense Medal, and the Good Conduct Ribbon. While serving in Vietnam, he was nominated for the Vietnamese Medal of Honor. He was trained as an artillery surveyor and a forward observer.
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